Unconditional love has no boundaries and lasts forever. If you think you do, it just means you didn’t even love this person in the first place. If there is unconditional love, there would be no divorces or breakups. It’s the choice you make based on what has happened it the past and what are your future plans. Then, you make a conscious decision to be with this person every day. That means you are calculating if his/her features, behaviors and appearance are enough for you. You make a conscious decision to be with someone. You are not choosing your children but you are certainly choosing your partner. Maybe I will never learn how to love unconditionally. I would do everything for my child(ren) but I know I am just a human and there are things that I love about each person. All I am talking about is something that is (or would be) in my heart, not what I am doing. Obviously, we need to distinguish feelings from the behaviors. Even though I’d try, I will always think about myself at some point. ![]() One single doubt, a second of reflection means I can’t always be selfless. And for me, this one little thought is enough to state I can’t truly love her unconditionally. But I think, at some point, I would have thought about what would life be like without her. If Mia was terminally ill, I would surely stay with her for a lifetime. I truly love her when she is crying but would I love her if she was crying all the time? Would I love her if she was unbearable? I have no idea if I would be able to give her my selfless love.ĭon’t get me wrong- I know there are parents who take care of their sick children for their entire lives. It’s her smile, her tiny body, her clever look and many more. But when I took a closer look at this feeling, I see that there are specific things that I love about her. When I became a mother, I thought I’d love my baby her unconditionally. It is important to realize that we are loving our partners, children, friends or family members differently. Your perfect love is becoming conditional.Ĭan We Love Unconditionally? Perfect Love To Your Children As time passes by, your feeling is less selfless and more conditional. You don’t expect anything besides you to be together as often as possible. You only see what’s good about him or her. When you are falling in love with somebody, you accept everything about this person. You don’t care what your new partner did wrong, what are his flaws, you just want to be with him. That’s what is particularly happening at the beginning of almost every relationship. Is there really unconditional love? I believe that every love is unconditional at some point. ![]() Ideally, all kinds of love should be unconditional but it’s not how the world works. Whereas love is ‘just’ an intense feeling. What is the true meaning of unconditional love? According to the definition of unconditional love, it’s affection without any limits, with no expectations. What Is The Difference Between Love And Unconditional Love? Even if it’s just a fear of being alone, there must be a benefit why you are loving a specific person. Even when you are sacrificing yourself, there must be something that you have from it. People don’t know how to love unconditionally. It is a divine feeling that is spotless and perfect. To be honest, both I and Patryk don’t believe that there is a perfect love like that in this world. So is there such a thing as unconditional love? Your feelings won’t change, no matter what they do. Loving someone unconditionally means accepting them with all their imperfections. Do you love everything about them? Or maybe there is something that you just can’t accept? Would you love them if they keep hurting you every day and won’t be willing to change? To start with, think about the people you truly love. ![]() Is it something real or maybe it’s just a myth that has nothing to do with an everyday life? Should we believe in unconditional love? How can we find perfect love? All About Unconditional Love… People talk about true love all the time. Do you believe in unconditional love? You can hear about selfless love in almost every romantic song, movie or story.
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